Friday, 24 July 2009
The Six Glorious Epoch of Indian History
Tuesday, 21 July 2009
Setback
It does become slightly dis-heartening when you put in effort to try and change things even slightly and yet the response isn’t there and although I did feel like this for a time I decided there is no point in ruing the chance but instead to create another chance and look at what can be improved upon to make sure this does not occur again. So I’m trying to strip it down to basics and think what would entice me to such a scheme...
Monday, 20 July 2009
Graduation
For me personally it was only during the final year that I started to actively think about my future and my career for myself rather than simply following what had been set forth in front of me. Many of us are set on auto pilot and although we like to think we decide a great many things for ourselves these decisions are cropped and shaped by others. Thus there is an element of conditioning which occurs resulting in individuals wanting a high paying job in order to purchase a large car/house/clothes/gadgets etc.
I observed this through conversations post graduation with many questions being monetarily centred which seems to be all too telling of our society at the moment where revealing your aspirations to be larger than simply receiving a large pay check to be somewhat strange and not fitting in with people’s expectations.
This may have arisen through the desires of individuals increasing up until they reach a point where when such desires are met, no happiness is felt from them. This is paralleled in a story within “The Kite Runner” where Amir (the protagonist) writes about a man who finds a magical cup and when tears fall into the cup they become pearls. By the end of the story the man who started off poor but happy, tried to find ways to make himself cry and ends up with his wife lying next to him and a knife in hand crying uncontrollably.
Progress and Problems?
Whilst researching for different ways of taking the Sangh Sandesh Interactive I have compiled a short questionnaire to aid in my research which can be found here:
The questionnaire and its answers shall enable me to hone the wants and needs of swaysevaks and sevikas in relation to the Sangh Sandesh. The main problem shall be the time limit in which responses can be taken as if responses are taken too late I shall not have enough time to research the feasibility and act upon such points.
With regards to the Nutritional content of SSV the main problem I have faced so far is assessing the calorific content of such foods since there are many websites and walkthroughs on how to calculate the calorie intake of most ingredients yet when it comes down to Indian dishes this task is much more difficult. Especially since with Indian dishes there are generally no set ingredients with most participants that I have asked on how they create the same food giving varied answers. This is another obstacle which has to be overcome in some manner.
Saturday, 18 July 2009
Time
“Life is a gymnasium where you have to display the best that you possess within the short time allotted to you.”
Whether its a hundred years, fifty years, one year, or even a month, the time we have when we have the capacity to work is precious, and not a moment should go by when you simply think that “there’s always tomorrow…”
Thursday, 16 July 2009
Sadhana of Service
Sadhana can be translated as devotion. A simple example to illustrare devotion is the unconditional love that a mother gives to her child. When serving others, sadhana is the stage that we should all aspire to be at - we serve unconditionally.
The book covers many topics such as the urge to serve, bravery & cowardice, India as a nation, faith, organisation & individual freedom. The issues that intrigued me the most in the book, however, were the chapters on living a purposeful life and the mission of life.
Throughout the book, Eknath states that we must live a purposeful life. To do this, we all must ask ourselves, 'what is the goal of my life?' and 'what is the meaning of my life?' Until this question is recognised, we are 'like a boy who believes that it is the tap that gives water.'
As a student, these are the types of questions that we often avoid. The daily questions that we are posed with are often those like, 'we sessioning on bacardi or vodka tonight??' We are absorbed in our own little world, thinking of only going out and having fun - I admit, I've fallen into this trap to a certain degree but after reading this book, asking myself 'what is the purpose of my life?' is something that I've tried to address.
In Hinduism, the purpose of life is to become self realised - realise the divinity that is within every individual. Our scriptures clearly tell us that it is up to us as to which avenue we should follow to reach our goal. Finding my avenue is something that I've been pondering deeply. One way to live a purposeful life is to serve God by serving humanity to the best of our ability. But this begs the question, 'how can we serve others whilst living in an affluent country such as the UK?' Does it require us to move to India & do work there?
This is a question that I am still grappling with. What I've concluded so far is that if we live our lives abiding by our morals, use our conscience and faculties to discriminate between what we feel is right and wrong and always think how we can contribute to the betterment of the world then we can live a purposeful life. This can be something as small as smiling at someone who walks by; being a friend who people can fully trust & never speak ill of anyone.
The book has posed many questions and those which I will continue to probe. The last chapter finished quite beautifully with:
'You can safely rely at all times on your own self for the fulfilment of your mission. There is a power within you which will never let you down. It is your own Self. Depend on it and march ahead with unceasing prayer to God to give you strength to fulfil his will.'
RULES, RULES, RULES
The amount of law on such matters is absolutely staggering. In one sense it is beneficial. The legislation ensures that all organisations follow and abide by a given standard. This is particularly crucial for matters such as fire procedures as most people have the view, 'it won't happen to me.' Therefore, by introducing laws, it forces people to take action and try to avoid this stereotype.
However, a lot of it is highly unnecessary for example having a 'No Smoking' sign which must be 77mm in diameter. Much of the legislation is there due to the 'suing' culture we live in today. It is a sad state of affairs that the such far fetched measures must be taken just to avoid being sued. This thought led me back to the TED videos we watched at Abhyas Varg B:
http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/barry_schwartz_on_our_loss_of_wisdom.html
http://www.ted.com/talks/ken_robinson_says_schools_kill_creativity.html
It begs the question are all of these rules and regulations stemming creativity and reducing the need for us to think? We merely follow a set of rules given to us; mainly out of fear of being sued. But why has this suing culture arisen? Do we not care about our fellow man? Do we take great pleasure in taking from them? What are the motives for taking others to court - greed, revenge, want free money? A common feature to all of these motives are that they arise from material or egotistic desires.
From interviewing and meeting many different Hindu Organisations over the past few weeks, the answer to this may lie in some of our most ancient scriptures - Lord Krishna told us that focusing our minds on God helps reduce the ego; raja yoga enables us to search within and find answers to our lives and become more spiritual. Perhaps a more spiritual society is needed to cure the suing culture that we live in today.
Tuesday, 14 July 2009
Change...
A further difficulty I've encountered, is that when asking for two contact numbers, simply to be thorough, the majority of people I've called are only willing to provide one number. Though this is not ideal, it is something I have no control over and have to happy about.
Monday, 13 July 2009
I'm Starving
As part of my second project, I’ve been assigned with helping improve the Sewa shop in Birmingham. Before today I had never seen the shop and after hearing many stories about it, I thought I would be in for a tedious day, but I was wrong. Today involved me helping making the store look more presentable, talking to the volunteers and listening to their stories and spending time learning about the way in which the shop’s administrative side is managed. It was very informative and will aid me greatly for my project.
However, I was not prepared for what was in store for me in the evening. Dipvandana took me to feed the homeless in the city centre. She’s been trying to get involved in more community projects and I feel this is something that all of us should do in our local area.
After getting slightly lost amidst the one way systems in the city centre and because of road blocks, we parked up on a side street and walked towards the car park where the food was to be served. When the food arrived, a swarm of people surrounded the car and I immediately thought, ‘what have I let myself into?’ but the people were courteous, kind, generous and in good spirits despite their bad luck. What struck me the most was that they were all willing to help each other out, ‘that’s the only way we survive’ Tim said. Another homeless gentleman said, ‘this is the nicest curry I’ve ever had.’ This struck me hard. The meal served was only daal, bhaat; the simplest Indian meal you can get and one which we all take for granted. It made me realise how unappreciative we all are and take the simplest things in life for granted which for others is a God send. It’s absolutely throwing it down with rain tonight, I hope Tim and the others find a safe place to stay.
Sunday, 12 July 2009
Step Your Game Up
The afternoon session of Abhyas Varg B was designed to give us the tools to enable us to push ourselves further and aspire for excellence. We watched a video from the TED website – an organisation that does talks and seminars spreading innovative and creative ideas.
http://www.ted.com/talks/lang/eng/barry_schwartz_on_our_loss_of_wisdom.html
To push for excellence, he motions the idea of ‘virtue’. To illustrate his point he gave the example of a hospital janitor. His job description does not involve one aspect which requires human interaction. However, when interviewed, many janitors gave stories of how they ignored orders and parts of their job description in order to help patients such as helping them with their rehabilitation. So, despite not requiring any social interaction as part of their described role, many janitors feel it is necessary to do so and this helps the hospital run smoother and create a pleasant environment.
So values such as kindness and empathy are an essential part of their job. A wise person requires the moral will and moral skill in order to do the right thing and knows when and how to make an exception to every rule. A wise person is adaptable and changes according to the situation.
A wise man is made, not born. Wisdom comes from experience and this requires trying new things and accepting and overcoming failure. To be brilliant, you need not be wise but without wisdom, brilliance is not enough.
Applying the above to society today, we see a world full of compliance and bureaucracy. Rules are rigid and we often hear the phrase, ‘I hate to do it but I have to follow rules.’ Has it occurred to us that rules often prevent thinking and initiative? Rules and incentives are useful in the short run but in the long run they deprive thinking and discourage people from using their moral will and doing the right thing.
But this structured and regulated society we live in is rife. Today’s education system hampers creativity and promotes mediocrity. Children are losing their ability to think and their creative prowess is diminishing. I, like many other university students can relate to this. To pass our exams, all we do is memorise a few lecture handouts and read the core textbook (obviously, not just the night before the exam!) and once it is finished, we forget everything that we learnt. As a result of the current education system, we often lack initiative and struggle to adapt to working life which is fast paced and ever changing.
To address this issue, the speaker spoke of how the education system needs revamping in order to promote creativity and forward thinking. In addition, work needs to be re-moralised – people should be inspired to do the right thing and this requires moral will and initiative. Furthermore, social interaction is needed to gain a greater sense of community spirit.
In many of our lives, we will be faced with the following dilemma – do we follow the rules given or do we use our moral will and do the right thing?? What would you do??
Adding Value...
Conviction...
An Inspiration, A Leader
In the morning session, we discussed greatly about the topic, leadership. We discussed the different types of leaders ranging from inspirational to spiritual. What was unique about the discussion was that we talked about how shakha creates leaders; how it identifies leadership and how it taps into this potential. Having attended shakha for many years, I had never discussed this topic and had always assumed that leadership was a quality that shakha just nourishes, without a second thought.
After being split into groups, we set about answering the questions posed. Having never examined the structure of shakha and how it develops our character, I found it difficult trying to pin point the aspects that I felt develop our leadership skills. However, with greater thought, ideas began to flow readily.
After reminiscing about my younger days as a swaymsevak (I’m still only 20 so still class myself as youngster), I realised that the whole shakha environment is aimed at nurturing our leadership skills. At first, this may sound ludicrous – for most people, the purpose of shakha is to play games, have fun and make new friends. Although this is true, there is something deeper to shakha and with further introspect these answers can be found.
Firstly, as swaymsevaks, we subconsciously learn the art of leadership by being led by others. Not only do we pick up the way in which they lead and organise activities, it also shows us the importance of respecting our elders, an ethos which our religion promotes greatly. Secondly, the environment of shakha encourages us to become leaders. Playing games such as kabadi exhibits skills such as teamwork and communication – skills which are crucial to becoming a leader. Therefore, even with no given responsibility, the seeds to becoming a leader are already being planted.
Camps and vargs such as SSV & SIP are designed to further enhance these leadership skills. Learning about the history of Sangh; gaining greater knowledge of Hinduism and being taught how to take shakha instils a sense of pride, discipline and commitment; again characteristics required of a leader. With these new profound skills, it should lead to introspection and conviction – one should realise the higher cause of shakha, uniting Hindus and emphasising the importance of serving our community to the best of our ability.
Another fundamental feature of a leader is that they must be inspiring. Shakha infuses this by having passionate baaudhiks on great figures in our history such as Shivaji. Admiring such great characters and implementing their qualities into one's life builds character. One meaning of inspiration can be, ‘to breathe life into another.’ It is a feeling or an emotion which is critical because it informs us what we value and this moves us to act. This act should be selfless and out of devotion (sadhana). A unique feature of leadership is that it is self inspired – it comes from within.
I often feel this is a quality that many Hindus lack. Looking back in Indian history, we have always had to rely on one leader, one inspiration such as Swami Vivekananda to lift us out of darkness. Why is it that we always require an individual to inspire us? Why can't we be bold and have the inspiration from within us to act? It is this area in which I feel shakha can help develop leaders by giving us the tools to search for inspiration from within. However, it is an arduous task and one that we all must ask in order to find our true inspiration.
Friday, 10 July 2009
Abhyas Varg C: Day 2
After a tiring and immensely hot first day the four of us awoke to what would be the hottest day of the year. As the previous day we began with Safai where Sonal and I tidied the kitchen and with Janak and Avnish clearing out the cellar, followed by prathna and meditation. One particular instance which stuck a chord with me was the reading, which at first was difficult to digest but then Ramji gave an example which made it abundantly clearer. He stated that once mobile phones are charged they work very well but sooner or later the charge fizzles out and thus requires another charge. This was paralleled with ourselves and our drive to complete a project or sangh work. I remembered when I finished my first year of SSV and I was revitalised and raring to go, yet after a while the drive seemed to be overridden with other thoughts, hence this example exemplified the importance of re-energising oneself.
After breakfast and the introduction to a crazy invention which I renamed limarmalade (lime and marmalade) we started on our first activity of the day. The four of us walked along to a nearby park where we met Phil a member of the environmental branch of the council where we were given litter picks and bin bags. Our first impressions were that the park was relatively clean and we wouldn’t find much litter around yet after a few minutes we soon realised how mistaken we were. As soon as we started actively looking for litter we saw just how much rubbish there actually was and by the end of the session all of our bin bags had been full to the brim with waste. As a result of the session I felt gratified although with a tinge of disappointment I had not carried such a simple exercise before. The session apart from giving me sweaty hands also made me think about our society and our projects, that we weren’t to look just for the sofa in the middle of the street but to look deeper below the surface while also challenging the problem at its source such as a kids litter program.
When we came back to the Karyalay we discussed Community, with it being the unification of people through a commonality, yet there are many in our community who are in our blind spots i.e. those who we often ignore or forget such as the postman. We should attempt to engage as many people as possible in our community especially filling those blind spots.
We then went on to make the SIP rules, briefly they are as follows:
- Be impeccable with your word
- Don’t take criticism personally
- Don’t make assumptions
- Always do your best
- Active listening
- Stay in contact to share ideas and progress
- No inhibitions: say what’s on your mind but remember the situation you’re in
‘There is no power for change greater than a community discovering what it cares about.’ From this quote the question was asked 'What is todays Salt?' which when put in context means what is the issue which faces the community today which shall bring the community together since generally people come together when there is something to fight for. Gandhi-ji’s salt march is an example of this where there was a tax imposed by the British on the production of salt which breached their human rights and thus brought together communities. This particular question seemed to be on my mind for the majority of the day with few answers appearing however this is an aspect which we Sipites shall no doubt consider in depth in our own towns.
We also discussed the concept of Active Listening which is essentially putting yourself in the shoes of the speaker to see the point they are trying to make from their perspective without any of your own personal bias.
After lunch from Hot ‘N’ Spicy which seemed to only have cob on the menu turned out to be rather tasty and fufilling before our next session which was about communication. Here we were put through what approach and what language to use when taking to different audiences about SIP, for example when taking to perspective employers to not use the terminology such as HSS but cut to the facts with the skills you have obtained and success of the project. Also the manner in which you speak is very important since an air of positivity about an experience reveals a lot more than simply speech.
We were then joined, unbeknown to us, by Sachin Nanda, Sudhir and Amritji Chandegra and we were put to the test and questioned about SIP and Sangh beliefs. If you had told us we would have faced such an onsaulght about beliefes we hold close to our heart then we wouldn't have believed how difficult this part of the session would be. Yet it turned out to be one of the most difficult points of SIP thus far but also revealing areas we must improve upon. We fell into a trap of using terminology they were not used to and also maybe reacting to hastily rather than pausing for a moment to think about what we really wanted to say and how it should have been presented to them. It seems sometimes things are felt better than they are articulated.
After this shock to the system we slightly more prepared for the second challenge when Vinod came in to talk to us about a scheme held in Leicester aimed towards youngsters with a political mindset. We then went about explaining Sangh and SIP better than previously yet still falling into some traps. From this session we learned to always be prepared and more importantly to simplyfy our arguments and beliefs and package them in a way which is easier to understand by others.
After all of this we would have been forgiven to think we would have had a nice simple dinner prepared by Dharmesh and Dipvandener but instead we were given the task of making dinner with a budget of £10 for 7 people and including a small aubergine. Such a task didn't seem that difficult to myself since I have been used to this through the experience of University. We ended up creating a feast which included brushetta as a starter with pasta bake as the main and a dessert of rasmala (which was left from saturday by NHSF's own Miten)
After such a hectic day we ended with Dharmesh not eating the food we had lovingly made for him, a recap of the day and looking forward to some well deserved rest.
Thursday, 9 July 2009
Money Can't Buy Happiness
Wednesday, 8 July 2009
The Relevance Of Swami Vivekananda's Teachings
Despite living over a hundred years ago, Swami Vivekanand’s message is still as vibrant and relevant as it was back than.
He found that spirituality could solve the problems confronting humanity. He preached that the best and sincerest way of worshiping God was to love fellow beings, especially the poor and the weak and alleviate their suffering and distress. For a combination of reasons, I will not indulge in them; poverty and suffering is still rife throughout the world. We live in a society where we are encouraged to care only for ourselves, buy the nicest and latest products and ignore the shortcomings and problems in our world. How many of us switch the channel when reports of widespread suffering are on? How many of us desensitise ourselves so that we do not feel guilty at not helping another man’s suffering?
In order to live a purposeful life, we must decide our goals and then find a way of achieving them – Swami Vivekananda showed us the most beautiful way to achieve this goal, serving humanity with the sincerest of love and devotion. He always used to spread the message: to live for others, to conquer egoism.
Swamiji harmonized east and west, religion and science, past and present. That is why he is so great. Terrorism is a major issue today and it arises due to a misunderstanding of other people’s views and beliefs. Vivekananda promoted ideas from our scriptures and emphatically stated that, ‘people born in different religions finally reach the same God, as rivers born in different places finally reach the sea. No religion is superior and none is inferior.’ If we applied this philosophy today, it would surely lead to greater harmony between different religions of the world.
Swamiji put great emphasis on character building. He taught us to ignore the negatives of our culture and go back to the Upanishads, Bhagvad Gita and find in them the truth of our culture. I, like many others are second generation born outside Bharat. Many of us face an identity crisis. Are we British or Indian? This is a question that we must all ponder and the answer to this may lie in our scriptures – these will give us our Hindu identity and with this, it does not matter which country we are from; Hindu Dharma is universal and applicable to all.
After the inauguration of Barack Obama, the world thought that we have finally found a true leader who can bring change and lead us into a new era of peace and co-existence. However, what tools does he have to achieve this? Yes, he may have charisma but I firmly believe that it is the message of Vivekananda that can truly achieve peace in our time. He has taught us to live for others. To serve mankind, is to serve God.Vivekananda's Mission
From Narendra to Vivekananda
The Early Years of Swami Vivekananda (Narendra Datta)
Narendra Datta was born on 12th January 1863. As a child he was very lively and naughty but one thing quality stood out even in his early years was his natural leadership qualities. Meditation, too, was a sport to him. He meditated so deeply that he was oblivious to the whole world and it helped sharpen his concentration.
Even as a child, Narendra had great respect for sannyasis. The spirit of sacrifice and renunciation was also highlighted in his youth – he would give away anything to anybody if asked for. In her spare time, his mum would tell him stories of the Ramayana which led him to have great reverence for Hanuman.
Narendra’s father was a lawyer. Therefore, everyday his house was crowded with clients all belonging to different castes. It was custom to provide the guests with hukkas (long pipes) to smoke after food. There was a different pipe for clients of each caste. Narendra always wondered what would happen if he smoked the pipe meant for people of a different class. Finally he experimented and nothing untoward happened. He concluded that caste had no meaning.
His parents had a great affect on him. His father used to always tell him, ‘you need fear no one so long as you keep to the path of truth and Dharma.’ Love of one’s religion should not mean hatred of other religions. His mother was dear to Narendra as his own life. In his eyes, there was no one as ready to make sacrifices as the mother. She must have the highest place not only in the home but also in society.
By 1880, Narendra had passed his examinations and joined college. Day by day, his thirst for knowledge increased. He would read history, science as well as western philosophy. Doubts and uncertainties overtook him. He gave up blind beliefs but could not realise the truth and had no direct experience of God. This led him in his search for a Guru….
SIP: Day 1
Day 1, Karyalay, Leicester.
The first activity was done in the mind of:
"Leave the place in a better state than that in which you found it." And so began Safai, as would be the norm for the next few days. This was followed by prathna and meditation. Excellent!
After a breakfast of everything you'd expect to find in a well balanced meal (toast, tea, pizza, cereal) we assembled for the first session: choice. We all sat waiting, eager to know what thought provoking issues would emerge from the first session, as Dipvandana and Dharmesh stood facing us.
“Welcome to SIP" said they, more or less, and then they left the room. No instructions, no explanation, nothing. Initially we sat, rooted to our chairs anticipating their imminent return... but alas! They did not come! And so we were left to our own devices. In the room was a table laden with bits and bobs; books, articles, DVDs, and some board games, including monopoly... and so we decided to play, just until they came back, mind you! We played, not strictly in accordance with the rules, for one hour, with still no sign to suggest that we had not been abandoned. It was then that it dawned on us that a game of monopoly would not be much to show for an hour and that something must be done. Janak checked on his laptop, revealing to us all that the first session was entitled CHOICE. With this in mind, we did choose to get something constructive done. Having been assigned two projects each, we worked and talked about ideas and potential avenues leading from our projects. All in all we had about 2.5-3hours. During a lunch that followed, we were asked "why do we think session 1 was designed the way it was?" It was only then that we began to see how those three hours reflected how we use our free time in our day to day life. When no one from school/university/work is telling us what to do, how do we organise our time and make the maximum use of it? How do we get the drive to get off the sofa and work without external instruction? Leaving us on our own without any push in any direction was a clear message from the SIP organisers that during the course of this programme, we will not be instructed or mothered. Rather that the drive to act and to do has to come from yourself. Organising the time you have and deciding how to spend it is vital; this way you can still meet with friends and do other things that you want to do.
After lunch and a bit of time for general replenishment, we began session 2: conditional sewa. Dipvandana and Dharmesh decided to stay fro the entire course of this session which we were very glad of. This session looked at a number of issues/topics/questions:
“How far are we willing to go to find a solution?"
Too often we are very quick to react to a problem, whether it be the weather, what we see on the news, traffic etc. What has to happen for us to get out of this cycle of simply criticising? Creating potential solutions as ways of combating the problems is a much more useful way of spending time.
“Be thankful to every poor person in the world; they enable us to serve."
This statement is something I have never considered. With it comes humility, a quality that allows us to see and appreciate this relationship of give and take; how you are receiving and growing in the service you are giving. Their state of poverty gives you an avenue for personal and spiritual growth.
“If you have come here to help me then you may leave BUT if your liberation is bound with mine then we may work together.”
"Service is the rent we pay for our space on this Earth"
We as British citizens are amongst the richest 2% of people in the world. But what is it that we have done to deserve it? What have we done to enjoy this Earth? We don’t make much of a sacrifice to enjoy the fruits of this life, and we cannot see anything unjust in this relationship of taking so much from Mother Earth. It is the service we do that must balance all that we have received.
The evening’s dinner plans were to be at different venues. We were all to go to different shakha households and spend the evening, from 18:30-22:00. Amidst the normal bustle of evening activities we were to find out as much as possible about our respective hosts. Later on that night, we re-adjourned for feedback. Listening to the different family stories of their past gives a fragment of understanding other peoples lives.
It was decided later on that night that all four of us were to follow a topic each in current affairs during the course of the month, ensuring that we withhold personal judgment. In this way a solid understanding can be gained.
The day ended with some meditation that strangely seemed to drift into sleep- it had been a long day!
Aims and Objectives...
After long discussions with my project mentor, parents of prospective camp attendees and the kids themselves, I have settled on the following aims and objectives for anyone who attends the Hindu Summer Scheme:
• To instil lifelong Hindu values and establish a hunger for knowledge.
• To build individual character, confidence and skills through a wide range of sports, workshops and cultural activities.
• To teach effective teamwork and individual responsibility in daily tasks.
• To approach and experience each and every day as a new and exciting adventure.
• To encourage attendees to form social relationships and make new friends.
Book Review: Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
This is a magical book. A book where omens are real, where signs can be interpreted in the movement of hawks swirling in the sky, and a kiss can be carried from across the dessert on the wings of the wind. This is exactly how Paulo Coelho makes you feel; you want to use poetic floaty language- it's brilliant!
The story is of a young boy on a journey to realising and fulfilling his destiny. Along the way he learns the universal language, faces tremendous obstacles, falls in love and is sought out by an alchemist who helps him realise what was within him all along. Coelho writes of deep spiritual concepts in simplistic yet beautiful language which makes this novel so very accesible.
"And when you want something, all the universe conspires in helping you to acheive it."
Book Review: Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist
Tuesday, 7 July 2009
Self improvement
Unexpected start to SIP
After a night of unprecedented heat and lots of tossing and turning further enhanced by the fact I was using a hoody as a pillow since I had forgotten to bring one, the day had finally come, the beginning of SIP. Awaking at 6.30am was something which I had not been used to as of post exam celebrations and as the rest of the SIP participants will tell you I am not a morning person yet I was ready to get stuck into the first activity after breakfast.
There we all were, sitting eagerly awaiting the start of a new venture, a new exciting chance to aid Sangh in an innovative way, when Dipvandana and Dharmesh walked out of the room! The four of us thought they would be coming with something they might have forgotten to bring and thus in that time we sat and chatted, got to know each other before resting our eyes on the table in front of us. This table had many different objects on it but the one which took our collective eyes was the big red and white board game which takes everyone back to their childhood: monopoly.
This first session was named Choice, it was our own choice to play monopoly and mess about at the start but we then decided on our own terms to start working upon our projects. This would be replicated when we went back to our own towns since we would not be micro managed but our progress would be down to us. This was not the way we envisaged the start of SIP but we all felt we had gained something from it especially the new ideas and perspectives of our peers and we looked forward to the rest of the sessions hoping they were to be as imaginative as the first.
My SIP Project
One of the projects I have taken on for SIP is to take the Sangh Sandesh interactive, i.e to use the technology available to make it leap of the screen or paper and thus easier to engage than just a standalone piece of literature.
I have talked to many people so far including friends and family and even those who you may not even think to ask such as the shop assistant at your local corner shop and even your driving instructor. These individuals are still a part of our community and thus still have valuable experience and knowledge that may help in such projects. As expected there were the myriad of usual answers such as using facebook and twitter to expand readership yet from the unusual sources such as through the simplicity of children I have found various other methods including the use of sms text, humour and even quizzes.
Furthermore I have uploaded the Sangh Sandesh through a simpler pdf web viewer to encapsulate the magazine feel with a simple turning of a page. Have a look for yourself here with the latest issue.
http://issuu.com/sanghsandesh/docs/ss_apr_jun09_web
Monday, 6 July 2009
Vivekananda Centre - The Beauty of Pluralism
Namaste,
Today, I spoke to Krishnabhai to get the perspective of the Vivekananda centre. It was an insightful conversation. He spoke passionately about the concept of pluralism that our religion promotes – i.e. there is only God but many different paths to reaching the ultimate reality; with each path being legitimate avenues to spiritual progress. I think this is a wonderful message that our religion promotes and one which all of us need reminding of in our lives. If all thought like this then surely there would be greater harmony in the world.
Tomorrow I’ll be going to be going to the Swaminarayan Mandir to celebrate the festival of Guru Pooja and to find out more of the work that they do. I must admit my knowledge of the Swaminarayan organisation is fairly limited so I am looking forward to learning more about their practices.
Litter Picking...
'The ones who walk away from Omelas'
After the reading, we were asked to place ourselves in the city of Omelas and discuss what we would do. The jist of the story is that the citizens of Omelas are blissfully happy with no hardship whatsoever. But there is one child who lives locked in a cupboard on its own excrement and is miserable. The happy citizens of Omelas have never experienced hardship or sacrifice, they have not earned their eternal happiness. If the child were ever to be freed, the remaining citizens would no longer be blissfully happy. The child is sacrificing his happiness so everyone else can live in permanent blissfulness.
I believe that there cannot be happiness without sacrifice. Would one want someone else to sacrifice for one's own happiness? Usually the answer is no, and people are disgusted to hear about this child. Yet when we draw parallels with our world, we realise that we are happy, yet most of us do not experience sacrifice. The poor beggar on the street is the child, the undernourished in the third-world are also the child. We see their hardship, but how many of us walk past beggars in London's city streets and pretend them not to be there?
It is easy to say that we would do the right thing if we were in the story. Yet we are in a similar story and many of us are doing nothing.
What we actually did for 4 days, cut off from the rest of the world, in Leicester
Naturally I can't give away everything we did, or it will spoil it for those who will complete SIP in years to come. But I can provide a small insight into a few activities:
* Litter picking in a local park, this included the expected crisp packets and cans etc. and also some fly tipped vinyl flooring and side-boards!
* Cooking dinner for 7 with only £10 and a small aubergine, and it didn't help that the kitchen felt like a furnace!
* Reading 'The ones who walk away from Omelas' - Ursula K. Le Guin
* Many more discussions and workshops on topics including, but not limited to, choice, community, communication, consumerism and commitment. (Yes they are all topics beginning with 'C' by design!)
* And a screening of 'The Legend of Bagger Vance'.Abhyas Varg
* There were also sessions directed at helping us with our individual projects, one in particular I found helpful tried to make us think about the method and presentation of the projects in as many different ways as possible. A real 'out of the box' session.
SIP starts
On June 28th 2009 the selected participants joined the team at Leicester Karyalaya for the first Abhyas Varg titled AB-C. Details of themes covered at this varg are available here
Over the next month, follow their progress on their projects, readings and personal reflections.